November 11th, 2014 § § permalink
Whittier Presbyterian is full of energy and looking for a new focus. We have been through New Beginnings, which showed us that we are a small yet vibrant congregation. We decided at that time to work with Nueva Vida and help them to grow. After much prayer, talk and work; we now know that these buildings are really too big for both congregations. The upkeep of all these buildings is so expensive in both money and time and effort. So… we are investigating where God will lead us; we know he has a plan for us.
We have been talking with Real Estate people to determine the worth of our buildings and finding if another congregation would be interested so it is not just a tear down. God also opened doors for us to talk to Presbytery and we discovered that when we move on, they might be interested in keeping the buildings and leasing them out to a different church.
Pastor Elizabeth has been sharing this information after worship services this summer, but we know many of you have been on vacation and missed those discussions.
Session has always coveted everyone’s prayers for the direction God might be taking our congregation and we are seeing fruits from those prayers. People are contacting us about using the building and people are sharing ideas of where we might go and what type of mission we could provide for our community. There is no timeline for anything that is happening but Session will be sharing information as it develops. So please be patient and please continue your prayers, as these are exciting times for our congregation. Please be sure to talk to a Session member if you have ideas or questions or concerns. Session is excited and can feel the energy coming from our membership about where God is leading us. So keep praying and thinking and sharing.
Questions: talk to Lurene, Carole, Melinda, Marilyn J, Marilyn R., Donna, Jim, Fermin (Session members) or Pastor Elizabeth
Thanks to Donna Hanson for this piece
October 28th, 2014 § § permalink
We’re moving! We are not sure yet where we are going. We are not doing this without large doses of reluctance and sorrow, but we are stepping out in faith.
Like many congregations that were started in California during the boom years after World War II, we were planted, grew large, and in recent years have seen our numbers decline. The buildings that once housed a congregation of over 1300 now hold less than 100. They are too big and we are too small. Several months ago, after much conversation, we came to the painful recognition that we can no longer maintain these buildings. Rentals help pay the bills. However, we increasingly find that being a landlord absorbs all our time and energy. Little is left for doing the kinds of ministries—from sheltering the homeless, to starting the still-operating preschool, to wonderful music programs—that were a big part of our life. So we faced the hard question. What now?
We considered closing. That is what many congregations do at this point. We considered merging. That is another option many congregations take. Then we realized there is a third option. We can take our strengths, move where we do not have the burden of maintaining the building, and find new ways to reach out and share God’s love and grace. We can carry on the congregation’s 70 plus year history of following God’s leading and sharing God’s love.
We are still figuring out the details, but we know God is leading us. We ask one thing of those of you reading this. Pray for us. Pray for us the following prayer.
Introduce us to the people we should walk with,
Show us the ministry we should do,
And lead us to the place where we should abide.
Keep watching. We’ll let you know where God leads us and how our adventure unfolds.
March 2nd, 2014 § § permalink
Please mark your calendar and take the time to join us for the four weeks of the New Beginnings follow up discussions. We need everyone’s input as we make decisions for the future of Whittier Presbyterian Church. We need everyone’s voice to be heard and this is the time and place to be involved with our decisions. See you all there.
November 22nd, 2013 § § permalink
A Present for Jesus
The contrast between the images struck me hard. Like many people, when I get up I do a quick check of the news on my computer. That morning my screen filled with images and stories of the tornado hitting the Philippines. Later the same day, I sat down to relax by watching a program. The ads came first. This one, a couple of weeks before Thanksgiving, was my first Christmas ad of the season. I won’t mention the company but like most holiday advertisements it consisted of encouragement to buy, buy, buy because the more we spent on gifts the more our relatives and friends would appreciate us. The contrast between the aching need and the extravaganza of gift giving bothered me. I was troubled when I read an article stating the average American plans to spend over $800 on gifts this year (down from over $850 last year). Self-gifting, the practice of buying a gift for oneself has increased. Is this really how Jesus wants us to celebrate his birth? What can we do different?
How about we buy a present for Jesus? It Is his birthday we are celebrating.
I am not so naive that I believe people will stop buying or exchanging gifts nor do I think we should. Many of us enjoy it. Watching children’s faces light up on Christmas Day is something parents celebrate. I do think we can remember Jesus in our gift giving.
But what would happen if each of us also bought a present for Jesus? By that, I mean what if we gave one gift designed to help at least one of the many aching needs we can find in our world? It should not be a left over gift, but a gift as big and significant as all the other gifts we give. If we spend $20 on the average gift, our Jesus gift should be at least $20. If we spend $100, our Jesus gift should be at least $100. It is, of course, always OK to give more. I know folk who have decided they do not need more stuff and ask their families to give them alternative gifts by giving where the need is greatest.
What kinds of gifts could we give? Here at the church, we regularly support Homework House http://www.homeworkhouse.com/locations.htm (free tutoring for children), Bridge of Faith http://www.bridgeoffaith.org/ (supporting women who have aged out of the foster care system without really having the skills to support themselves), and First Day http://www.whittierfirstday.org/ (working to help people overcome homelessness). Presbyterian Disaster Assistance has opened a special account for the Philippines. You can donate to that or one of the other places they are helping at http://www.presbyterianmission.org/ministries/pda/who-we-are/. Looking to help in another way? Try http://www.presbyterianmission.org/ministries/pda/who-we-are/ for gifts ranging from wells to chickens to school packs. Not comfortable donating online? Send a check directly.
August 7th, 2013 § § permalink
I have been asked why I came to Whittier Presbyterian, a once large congregation that has now shrunk in size. The honesty of the people who interviewed me is what convinced me. This is a congregation that had gone through the New Beginnings process and made some intentional choices about their future. Now, they asked for someone who could help them implement those difficult decisions.
We live in a time that is challenging for the Church. The percentage of the population that considers themselves Christians has declined while the percentage listing themselves as having no religious preference grows. Many people have a view of Christians shaped by the hate-filled groups that fill the media. The number and average size of congregations is shrinking. This is one of those periods, they have happened before in history and will probably happen again, when God is pruning the Church. When comfort comes before discipleship, when belief becomes easier than transforming lives, God does something to shake up the Church.
But this kind of challenging time is difficult for those who face the changes. It is hard on clergy, it is hard on members, and it is hard on everyone. I have watched congregations whither because they would not or could not accept that the context the Church lives in is changing. I consider it a gift to be asked to work with a group that is trying to face the change (which is not the same as liking it). How could I say no to this adventure?
Pray for the Church and each other as we follow God into this new future.
June 9th, 2013 § § permalink
God continues to bless our church family. We have a wonderful new pastor, Pastor Elizabeth Steele. She is a wonderful addition to our worship family. Pastor Elizabeth has invited us to dream about new possibilities for our worship space, the community around us, and deepening our own relationships with God. Please join us in this endeavor. We are a welcoming congregation!
December 28th, 2012 § § permalink
This is my last “Greetings from Whittier Presbyterian Church” email. Many of you will have signed up for Greetings from Geoff Nelson, so you will continue to hear from me. But today, I take a moment of personal privilege to reflect upon these emails.
It has been a wonderful journey which began in Feb. 2000, nearly 13 years ago. These emails were part of a new chapter in ministry for Whittier Presbyterian Church. The audience grew slowly and these emails became one of the first signs that I had gifts that could not only benefit our parish, but extend beyond into the larger faith community.
Thank you to the members of Whittier Presbyterian Church, for their partnership in ministry for nearly 28 years, for their encouragement to try new things over the years, and for the love that has grown between us.
Thank you to others of you on this list, wherever you came from, be it conferences, Companions retreats, DASD, all my dreaming friends, my clergy colleagues. All of you in various ways, have contributed not only to the ‘success’ of these emails, but in the personal growth that has been a great, profound and career-changing experience for me over these past twelve years. I thank God that many of you have testified that these emails have been helpful to you in your faith journeys.
Farewell, and I pray we will meet at various times & places as we continue our journeys of faith together.
December 21st, 2012 § § permalink
Well, we’ve made it so far through the day and the world hasn’t ended yet.. So much for another end-of-the-world prediction.
My favorite astronomy site has this today. Following some of the links in this site will take you here: http://www.nasa.gov/topics/earth/features/2012.html and you can follow more links at this site and get the astronomical perspective on such end of the world predictions. Here is a link I posted on Feb. 10 of this year, on the Mayan Calendar. Some more rational explorations of the Mayan Calendar have to do with shifts in human consciousness. Here’s Google’s list of such.
One of the themes of Advent is the second coming of Christ so Christians are familiar with prophecies of the end of the world. But some of us have come to see the deeper spiritual meaning of such prophecies, that Christ may come into our hearts in a dramatic fashion that can be spoken of as his second coming. Many of us have been praying for a shift in the culture of America, particularly since the shootings one week ago in Newtown, CT. There seems to be a sense in the press that we have had enough of unrestricted gun access, and perhaps enough graphic violence in movies and video games. I plan on talking with my grandchildren this holiday season about the Newtown shootings and about graphic video game violence. I’ll be interested in what the older kids have to say. We might even have the conversation while the young are blasting away on their new Christmas games!
Well, forgive my meandering thoughts and links. I doubt the world will end today, but I pray that there are some sifts taking place in our culture. I’d like to hear what you have found helpful about any of the topics covered here.
Blessings of Advent and Christmas to you all.
December 18th, 2012 § § permalink
When do we tell the truth about Santa Claus? At what age can children ‘get it’ without being hurt and/or disappointed? Many a parent asks such questions. Here is something that I read the other day that relates to those questions and expands upon them. It’s from the great psychologist C. G. Jung, from Vol. 9, II of his Collected Works.
“… it is so extremely important to tell children fairy-tales and legends, and to inculcate religious ideas (dogmas) into grown-ups, because these things are instrumental symbols with whose help unconscious contents can be canalized into consciousness, interpreted, and integrated. Failing this, their energy flows off into conscious contents which, normally, are not much emphasized, and intensifies them to pathological proportions. We then get apparently groundless phobias and obsessions—crazes, idiosyncrasies, hypochondriac ideas, and intellectual perversions suitable camouflaged in social, religious, or political garb.”
I adapt Jung here to say, tell children about Santa as long as you can, then give them something else to believe in as they continue to grow and learn about themselves and the world. A mature Christian faith has little to do with Santa Claus, but it has everything to do with helping us deal with our unconscious contents and with the world around us. Apologies for this deeper psychological quote today, but the value of symbols and images in our lives of faith is very important. Helping children (and adults!) move from a literal understanding of symbols and legends to a deeper understanding as they are able is one of the great gifts we can give.
May your Advent/Christmas be full of symbols, legends, and all the stories you can find about this season.
Here is a Presbyterian response to the tragedy in Newtown, CT.
December 14th, 2012 § § permalink
I ran across something I want to share in a commentary on Luke 3:7-18, the text I’m preaching on this coming Sunday. The commentator is the Rev. Wesley D. Avram, pastor of Bryn Mawr Presbyterian Church, in Bryn Mawr, Pennsylvania. His commentary is in the “Feasting on the Word” Commentary series, year C vol. 1. I’m editing the quote with the words in parentheses.
“The classic question of character comes to mind, for each preacher (Christian) must determine with others what are the particular habits of pastoral (daily) and personal life that accomplish her (or his) credibility to name sin with compassion, to proclaim God’s forgiving Spirit, and to invite others to respond to that Spirit.”
I liked Avram’s implication that we are better & wiser if we name sins with compassion, not judgment. We are living in a time when judgment has a bad reputation and many are leaving Christianity because they perceive it to be so judgmental. Yet judgment and judgmental-ism are two different things. Judgmental-ism is characterized by a critical and condemning attitude. Yet judgment is important in living right, in discerning the difference between right and wrong, between something that will harm ourselves or harm others, and something that will be good for us or others. So I guess the key is using compassion in our judgments, not judgmental-ism. Perhaps if we used the word discernment instead of judgment, we would be safer.
Here are some quotes on judgmentalism:
What have you found that helps you understand the difference between compassion and judgmentalism?
May your Advent/Christmas time be a time of deepening holiness & respect.